If your child is approaching their teens, you may be starting to think about what comes next. The transition from childhood services to adult systems can feel overwhelming, but you don't have to figure it all out at once. This page walks through the key areas to plan for, with timelines and resources.

Healthcare Transition

Starting to plan for healthcare transition around ages 12 to 14 gives you time to prepare. Policies on seeing patients into adulthood vary by specialty and individual provider. Some pediatric practices do set age limits, which is one reason healthcare transition planning is recommended to begin around ages 12 to 14. Families of individuals with SETD5 Syndrome may want to identify adult providers ahead of time. Depending on individual needs, this might include an adult neurologist, a geneticist or genetic counselor, and a primary care doctor willing to coordinate care.

One important step is transferring your child's medical records and creating a care summary document for new providers. This helps them understand your child's history quickly and completely. You may want to reference our Medical Emergency Summary guide for help organizing this information.

Adult care often operates differently than pediatric care. Instead of having one pediatrician coordinate everything, adults typically need to manage their own care coordination. This is sometimes called a "medical home" -- a single provider (often your primary care doctor) who knows your full medical history and helps coordinate specialist care. Talk with your child about this transition as appropriate for their understanding.

Resource

Got Transition (gottransition.org) is a widely used national resource on healthcare transition, funded by HHS. They offer free downloadable checklists, readiness assessments, and a step-by-step framework designed for both families and providers. Many families find it a helpful starting point.

Legal Decision-Making at Age 18

In most U.S. states, at age 18 individuals reach the age of majority, and parents no longer have automatic legal authority to make medical, financial, or personal decisions. Exact rules vary by state. Options such as guardianship, supported decision-making, or healthcare proxies are established through state-specific legal processes. Planning ahead makes an enormous difference. Options depend on individual abilities and needs. Here are the main pathways.

Guardianship

A court grants a guardian legal authority over some or all of your child's decisions. This is the most restrictive option and requires ongoing court involvement. It is typically considered for individuals who have difficulty participating in decision-making.

Power of Attorney

Your child voluntarily grants you (or someone else) authority to make specific decisions. This generally requires that your child can understand what they're signing and the implications, according to state law. It's less restrictive than guardianship but requires capacity to consent, which is determined under state law.

Supported Decision-Making

Your child keeps their legal rights but has trusted people (family, friends, professionals) who help them understand options and make decisions. This is less restrictive and has gained formal legal recognition in many states, with the number continuing to grow (as of early 2026 — check with NDRN or ASAN for the current count). Some families are exploring this approach first.

Healthcare Proxy

A designated person is authorized to make medical decisions if your child cannot. This is narrower than guardianship and focuses only on healthcare. It can be used alongside other arrangements.

You may also hear about conservatorship (which typically covers financial decisions) and representative payee status (for SSI benefits). Talk with a disability attorney about what combination of tools makes sense for your family.

Note

Guardianship is not the only option. Some disability advocates encourage families to explore supported decision-making first, as it is less restrictive and honors your child's autonomy. The right choice depends on your individual child's abilities and your family's values.

Important

Many families find it helpful to begin this conversation with a disability attorney well before their child turns 18. Some disability advocacy organizations suggest beginning this process well before your child turns 18. Your state's Protection & Advocacy agency (find yours at ndrn.org) can provide free legal help and resources, often at no cost to families.

SSI and Benefits at Age 18

If your child receives Supplemental Security Income (SSI), be aware that Social Security will conduct an "age-18 redetermination" using adult disability criteria instead of childhood criteria. This is a significant hurdle: some young adults may see benefits discontinued at the age-18 review, even when the underlying disability has not changed.

To prepare, start gathering updated medical records, school evaluations, and clear documentation of functional limitations now. Documentation from your child's doctors describing how SETD5 Syndrome affects daily functioning can be an important part of the SSI review process. Families may want to discuss this with their care team ahead of the age-18 redetermination.

Medicaid is often tied to SSI. If SSI is lost, Medicaid may be at risk too, though many states offer Medicaid waivers that let people continue coverage even without SSI. Medicaid waiver programs vary enormously by state and usually have long waiting lists -- sometimes years. Apply early, even if you don't need services immediately.

Critical

If your child receives SSI, mark their 18th birthday on your calendar now. Social Security will re-evaluate eligibility using adult criteria. Having updated medical documentation, school records, and clear statements about functional limitations ready can make a significant difference in the outcome.

See our Qualifying for Services page for much more detail on SSI, Medicaid, and related benefits.

Financial Planning

Even if your family doesn't have substantial assets, financial planning is important. Here are three key tools to understand.

ABLE Accounts

ABLE accounts are tax-advantaged savings accounts for people with disabilities (available since 2014). ABLE accounts are designed so that savings up to certain limits generally do not affect SSI or Medicaid eligibility. The money can be used for housing, education, transportation, assistive technology, and other disability-related expenses. As of 2026, the ABLE Age Adjustment Act raised the age-of-onset requirement from 26 to 46 (see ablenrc.org for current information). Check ablenrc.org for the most current eligibility rules.

Special Needs Trusts (SNTs)

A Special Needs Trust is a legal arrangement designed to hold assets for your child while helping preserve eligibility for public benefits. There are two types: a first-party SNT (using your child's own money, like a settlement) and a third-party SNT (using family funds). A third-party SNT is an estate planning tool designed to help preserve SSI and Medicaid eligibility; consult a special needs attorney about how this works in your state.

Letter of Intent

A Letter of Intent is not a legal document, but it is a detailed planning guide you write for future caregivers -- whether that's a group home staff, a sibling, or a residential program. In it, you describe your child's daily routines, medical needs, food preferences, what helps them feel safe, important people in their life, and their personality and strengths. It can be a useful document to have, regardless of financial situation or current living arrangements.

Tip

You do not need to be wealthy to benefit from an ABLE account. Even small savings for future technology, transportation, or housing can make a difference -- and the money won't jeopardize your child's benefits.

Adult Services -- Day Programs, Employment, and Housing

Once your child is no longer in school, adult services replace special education. These services include vocational rehabilitation, supported employment, adult day programs, and residential options. Most states have a Vocational Rehabilitation (VR) agency that provides services to help people with disabilities prepare for work. Check your state's VR program for current offerings. VR can help your child explore career interests, get job training and coaching, and find community employment. Some people use supported employment, where they work in regular community jobs with ongoing coaching and support from a job coach.

Adult day programs offer structured activities, socialization, and supervision for adults who aren't working or who work part-time. Residential options range from living at home with family support, to supported living arrangements, to group homes, to more intensive residential services. What's available varies significantly by state.

Here's the most important piece of advice from experienced families: waiting lists are long. Get on them now. Adult disability services in many states have significant waiting lists. Waits of several years or longer have been reported in some states. You can always decline a spot or pause services, but you cannot get back years spent waiting. Contact your state's disability agency and your local chapter of The Arc for information on applying.

Critical

The most common advice from experienced families: get on waiting lists now. Adult disability services in many states have long waiting lists. You can always decline a spot, but you cannot get back the years spent not on the list.

A Suggested Timeline

Here's a roadmap showing what to focus on at each stage. Every family's situation is different, but this gives you a framework.

1

Ages 12--14

Begin healthcare transition planning. Discuss future with school transition coordinators and start identifying adult providers. Visit Got Transition's website for assessment tools.

2

Ages 14--16

School transition planning becomes a more significant part of the IEP process. Research guardianship and supported decision-making options. Get on Medicaid waiver waiting lists (even if you don't need services yet). Start documenting medical history for adult providers.

3

Ages 16--18

Consider identifying adult healthcare providers and scheduling transition appointments. Consult a disability attorney about legal decisions. If eligible, open an ABLE account. Apply for Vocational Rehabilitation services.

4

Age 18

SSI redetermination happens. Legal decision-making authority takes effect (guardianship, supported decision-making, or other arrangement). Medical records typically transfer to adult providers during this period -- this is a good time to ensure that transition is complete. Apply for adult day programs if needed.

5

Ages 18--21

Under IDEA, students with disabilities may be eligible for school services until age 21 or high school graduation, depending on state law. Use these years to build employment and independent living skills. VR services can coordinate with school. Continue engaging with adult service systems.

6

Age 21+

Full transition to adult services (VR, day programs, residential support). School services end. Ensure connections to adult system are solid before the school system exits.

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